To Be Modern…Or Not?

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by Miriam Silverberg

To Be Modern...Or Not?Every time I read a fashion article extolling this or that for being so modern, my hackles rise. What makes an item of clothing so wonderful simply because it looks modern.  Think about it.  Modern means new, not seen before.  Do we get bored so easily and are our attention spans so short that we can’t tolerate the familiar?

When Coco Chanel said “fashion changes, style remains,” she wasn’t encouraging us to pick up the next new thing simply because it was new.  She understood that something that was stylish 75 years ago is still stylish today.  A Chanel suit is a case in point.  Anyone with a vintage Chanel suit can wear it today and still be chic and stylish.  Modern?  I don’t know.

So often fashion editors fall all over themselves praising something trendy and of the moment.  Everybody is wearing it.  Until the next season.  Then those same fashion editors laugh at how ugly it was and tell us to get rid of it and buy another style that’s just come out and this one will be perfect for everyone because it’s so modern.  Until the following season when the same thing happens all over again.

Of course, if the magazines didn’t show something new, if the designers didn’t come out with a new collection each season, no one would buy anything.  Women must be shown new things and told everything in their closets is suddenly out of date.  I understand this but I also think women should think for themselves.  A beloved patterned skirt that was bought a few years ago should not be thrown out or relegated to the back of the closet simply because designers have decided that “solid colors are modern.”

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Even the fashion editors can’t make up their minds and want it both ways.  Recently I read an article about a new collection that seemed to be glorious simply because it was so modern.

A few pages later I read about another designer whose collection was so charmingly “retro.”

And what fun it was going to be seeing women wearing styles from the 60’s.

Let’s start thinking for ourselves.  Just because something is new doesn’t mean it’s desirable and something that dates back years can still look refreshing, chic and stylish.

0136c8462799e88683012617207fb135f09f3f1291Miriam Silverberg is a freelance writer and owner of Miriam Silveberg Associates, a boutique publicity agency in Manhattan.  She may be reached at




2 Responses

  1. BRAVO Ms. Silverberg.
    You are singing the same song Ive been singing for years and years.
    I’ve been telling my clients, readers and audience members that trends and ‘expert’ fashion advice is simply a tool to make women BUY and BUY.
    Style is created with combining different pieces of clothing and accessories but always adding the most important and always in style touch of personality.
    As a wardrobe stylist who despises trends and women who all does alike, thank you for sharing my unconventional belief.

  2. Miriam Silverberg says:

    thank you, Scarlett. I’m glad you agree.

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