Spotlight on Long Island Women: Kathleen Quigley Caputo
From Corporate Life to Comforting Little Hearts: The Beautiful Journey of Kathleen Quigley-Caputo
“When you say never, God may have another plan for you.” Kathleen Quigley-Caputo
Some stories don’t just unfold. They transform.
This is exactly what happened in the life of Kathleen Quigley-Caputo. Her path took unexpected turns, leading her from the fast-paced world of commercial real estate to a mission rooted in healing, comfort, and love for children and families who need it most.
Born in Queens and raised in Richmond Hill, Kathleen’s early life had the same path as so many others. She graduated from Richmond Hill High School, attended Queens College, then Saint John’s University, and built a successful career as a paralegal in Manhattan before moving into commercial real estate. She eventually became Vice President for a very successful commercial leasing company.
She was accomplished, driven, and successful. But something deeper was quietly calling her for years.
After decades in a high-stress career, Kathleen decided to retire. “It was time,” she shared. “Too much stress.”
Sometimes when we step away from one life, we step directly into the one we were meant for all along.
Kathleen’s journey into spirituality wasn’t sudden. It was quietly unfolding for years.
After feeling a deeper pull toward helping others, she began studying at the Center for Spiritual Living in Hicksville, immersing herself in spiritual philosophy, healing practices, and personal growth. What started as curiosity became a calling. In 2013, Kathleen became an ordained minister, a milestone that would shape the next chapter of her life in ways she could never have imagined.
Her work expanded to include spiritual counseling, hypnotherapy, and healing practices. These tools were coming together for her with the purpose she was born to have.
Her mother once told her she always wanted to help people, even from a very young age. It was no different now that she retired.
Sometimes inspiration comes in the most unexpected ways. For Kathleen, it was a teddy bear.
After encountering the teachings of Dr. Masaru Emoto and his work on the power of words, thoughts, and energy, Kathleen became deeply inspired by the idea that what we say and how we feel can shape our experience. Kathleen was so impressed by Dr. Emoto’s philosophy that she made an appointment to meet him in person. Off to California she flew. While walking around the lobby of the hotel she was staying at, she noticed a huge polar bear for sale in one of the stores. The magic happened. She bought the stuffed animal. This bear now had a new home, a new purpose, and a new name. “Hado Bear” was born.
“Hado,” she explains, refers to the vibrational energy we are all made of.
What started as a concept became something tangible, a soft, comforting bear paired with a meaningful message, designed to help children feel safe, strong, and supported.
She wrote a book. She hired an illustrator. She brought her vision to life. In 2018, Hado Bear was launched. Kathleen didn’t stop at creating a product. She created a purpose.
Through her nonprofit, Source of Guidance, she began focusing on children facing illness, fear, and emotional challenges. Her vision expanded into something even more powerful, bringing comfort directly into the lives of these families.
She imagined hospital settings where children could receive a Hado Bear, not just as a toy, but as a symbol of strength. She envisioned messages that could help children feel calm, brave, and hopeful. She made Hado Bear a bear who can talk to the children.
Then, when the world paused during COVID, Kathleen reached out to families online, connected with parents, and discovered a growing need for emotional support for children navigating illness.
Today, Kathleen continues to expand her mission with Hado Bear Talks and her Superhero Club by creating videos and content designed to uplift children, help them feel empowered, and remind them of something very important: They are stronger than they think.
Her work doesn’t just comfort children. It supports parents too. It offers tools, messages, and moments that families can return to repeatedly, especially during the hardest days.
What makes Kathleen’s story so special isn’t just what she created, it’s why she created it.
It’s the belief that words matter. That energy matters. That even something as simple as a teddy bear can carry love, intention, and healing.
Kathleen’s message to all, “It’s never too late to become who you were always meant to be.”
To explore Kathleen’s work and mission, please visit:
hadobear.com
sourceofguidance.org
As I sat reflecting on Kathleen’s journey, I couldn’t help but think about how many of us are still holding on to a “plan” we have not realized yet.
And how beautiful it is when we do follow our dreams.
Sometimes, what we thought was the end of one chapter is actually the beginning of something extraordinary. LEARN MORE ABOUT HADO BEAR.
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