Gift Yourself with Sleep  

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I know I am not alone when I say this…In the past I have been guilty of skimping on this precious commodity. Loving a sense of accomplishment, I always pushed myself to cross one more thing off my to-do list before my head hit the pillow.  I’d also set my alarm 20-30 minutes earlier in the a.m. to finish something before my day “officially” began. Sure I was the poster child for a “how to get more done in a day” blog post, but I was consistently walking around exhausted! Over time I realized that I was sacrificing my physical and emotional well-being for the sake of efficiency and…Somewhere over the last few years I realized that was no longer a trade-off I was willing to make.  Here’s what changed for me when I gave myself the gift of a few more ZZZs.

Better Concentration – I didn’t make the connection when I was sacrificing sleep, but I was very easily distracted. My mind would wander if I was attending a lecture or if someone was telling a story with a wee bit too much detail. I would get up and walk into another room to do something and forget what that something was. Or I would stop in the middle of a sentence because I forgot what I wanted to say. After I had a few consistent evenings of more sleep, I made the connection that a bit more sleep allowed me to better focus on what I was doing, hearing or saying.  Some of the mental fog had lifted.  I assure you, getting slightly less done in a day was a small price to pay for being more alert and present.


More Pep – Ahhh…I remember it well. The mid-afternoon slump.  For me it arrived sometime between 2:30 and 3:00 p.m. and brought with it the desire for a mid-afternoon cat nap or a caffeine pick-me-up. Not surprising. The truth is that sleep loss results in a major energy drain. Studies show that with as little as half an hour of sleep missed, you have less available energy clear into the next day. What’s more the snooze button may look more appealing and, when you do get up, you will probably do so with less gusto and enthusiasm.  Adding as little as 45 minutes each night has not only lessened my late afternoon lethargy but it’s also made me more amenable to my alarm clock. It has also helped to keep those nasty, little afternoon sugar cravings at bay. Which brings me to the next benefit…

Beauty Benefit – There’s no question about it. Sleep helps you look better. Chances are, if you’ve missed a few ZZZs, you’ve found yourself with red or puffy eyes and/or dark circles. You may have also found that your complexion looks a wee bit drab and lifeless. The truth is our body boosts blood flow to the skin when we snooze which gives us more of a healthy glow in the a.m.  I don’t know about you, but I was tired (no pun intended) of waking up not only feeling – but looking – exhausted. What’s more I realized that I wasn’t fooling anyone with makeup and here’s why.  When we skimp on sleep, we not only loose a bit of our visual vitality, our facial expressions change in subtle, yet consistent ways.  We tend to “furrow and frown” which can be a telltale sign to others that we’re irritable and tired. (And who wants to be around someone like that??)

Improved Mood – I consider myself a pretty easy-going kind of gal.  But when I was running short on sleep, admittedly I was a bit cranky – and dare I say – reactive.  My emotions were not at all on an even keel and I was more “sensitive” to things that ordinarily wouldn’t have bothered me. I’ve since read that people who sleep less have a higher rate of stress hormones that can wreak havoc on your waking hours. I have noticed that, even with just a little bit more sleep each night, I feel happier, more even-tempered and better able (at least emotionally) to tackle whatever comes my way.  (I am quite sure that those closest to me have noticed as well – smile.)

Healthy Choice – Now I’m not saying that getting more sleep is a guarantee, but…Studies show that there is a link between an insufficient amount sleep and some significant health problems such as heart disease, high blood pressure, diabetes and obesity.  I am no health expert but I do understand how more sleep can reduce levels of stress which I know contributes to the aforementioned.  As for myself…I can honestly say that I’ve experienced fewer colds, sore throats and headaches since adding more ZZZs.  A medical wonder!

For those of you that skimping on sleep isn’t a bit deal, think again. There’s no denying it: Sleep plays a key role in your emotional and physical well-being.  So rather than finishing up that report or answering those last few emails, power down and rest up!

Carol Davidson is a style strategist, life coach and fellow Tomato. She takes great pride in helping others tap into their passion, potential and personal style. The techniques, tools and guidance she gives her clients help them get dressed and with gusto and enthusiasm and seamlessly step into what comes next. Her expertise has helped thousands tackle their careers and personal lives with confidence and enthusiasm.   To learn more about her wardrobe and life coaching services and how you can work with her virtually or in person, please reach out to her at For more shopping picks and lifestyle tips, please visit Carol on FB: Carol Davidson Life Style Strategy and follow her on Twitter @CarolDavidson.


  • Carol Davidson

    For over 15 years, Carol Davidson has helped women transform their appearance, wardrobe and self-esteem. Her style and life coaching advice has helped women tackle their careers and personal lives with confidence and enthusiasm. Clients have told Carol they look better and feel better about how they look and the life they lead. They move forward with greater ease and confidently show up for matters most. Carol is an educator at the Fashion Institute of Technology and has been quoted in countless media outlets including:,,, SmartMoney and Real Simple. While she calls NYC and South Florida “home,” her reach includes the Tri-State area and beyond. Her Skype consultations and easy-to-use, private, online closet, shopping and lookbook platform allow her to work with clients across the country and around the world. For more of Carol’s style picks and lifestyle tips, please visit her at: and like her on FB: CarolDavidsonLifeStyleStrategy. You can also find her on twitter @CarolDavidson.

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