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May 21, 2009
 
Has TV gotten too real? Plus Love Affairs, the Ted Mack Amateur Hour and more
 
Has Grey's Anatomy really killed off George and Izzy? Is Susan the bride in the finale of Desperate Housewives? And is there really going to be a sequel to Farrah's Story?  If that last question jolts you, well it jolted us too. We were going to keep quiet on this one. But we just can't. Maybe because we're still feeling guilty that we watched last Friday's "documentary." So read on. But first we want to update you on what's new at our web site. Debbie Zipp's confessing to a love affair, PTA Mom has her weekly top ten news picks and our new videos at 3T.TV will make you smile and laugh. Remember the Ted Mack Amateur Hour and Buddy Holly? And before you head off for a great holiday weekend, get your tickets now for our May 28th Cocktails and Conversations evening with best-selling mystery writers Mary and Carol Higgins Clark.   
 
A Love Affair at 56
summer harvest v blockIn the Trenches Productions', Debbie Zipp writes about her "love affair" this week.  "Yes, it's true.  I'm ashamed to say it but I recently had a love affair.  Sometimes you find love and you just can't help yourself.  Someone just speaks to you in ways no one else can and you are whisked away. You still deeply love the one you have committed a lifetime to but you find that your heart is so big it can easily handle a new love.  But at what cost??  The new man in my life is ..."  Read more.
 
PTA Mom with this week's top 10
summer harvest v blockLove affairs are one thing, but getting pregnant at 66?  PTA Mom's #4 news item this week is about the 66 year old woman who is pregnant.  PTA Mom says " IVF has been around for 30 years. This just popped into her mind now? At this point, she's going to have a baby Stegosaurus. " Read the rest of the top ten.
 
 
Farrah's Story.  Why?
farrah fawcettWe guess it was all the hype. We guess it was a feeling of kinship with the iconic Farrah Fawcett, a woman of The Three Tomatoes generation. And we confess it was curiosity too, of the ghoulish nature. So yes, we watched the documentary last week called Farrah's Story, which painfully chronicles her battle with cancer.  And we were left at the end with one thought. Why? To show that Farrah has been very brave? To show that cancer is a horrible disease?  To show that even celebrities are not immune? To show that if you have enough money you can fly on private jets to other countries to get treatments not yet offered here? To show how hideous the tabloids can be for exploiting celebrities, but then exploit yourself?  We just don't get it. 
 
Yes, Farrah has been very brave, and very determined to live, and has been through hell.  But in the past few years, like way too many other tomatoes, we have stood by and watched dear friends and family who have also been very brave and very determined to live and gone through hell.  And most, thankfully,are still here.  So we go back to the why of this?  Sadly, there really was no big message that will somehow change how we think about cancer, or how we respond to it.  Instead, we were brought into a very personal and painful story like voyeurs, and in the end, felt creepy that we'd watched it.  And we were shocked and appalled when we heard Ryan O'Neill tell The Today Show that they have enough new footage to do a sequel!  Someone needs to tell these people that real life shouldn't necessarily be played out like a Hollywood movie.  Because honestly, we just don't need that much reality on TV.  Especially when it's played out for us in our own real lives.
 
So please, leave our reality TV to rooting for our favorites on American Idol and Dancing with the Stars, and our TV tears for fictional characters, like Izzy.  But in our real lives, let's be there in times of trouble and need for our friends and family on our private stage called life.  And when a celebrity is going through life's difficult moments, let's hold them in our positive thoughts, and hope they're surrounded by loved ones too.  But honestly, we do not need to be looking on.
 
Before there was American Idol 
Well tomatoes, we can't leave you bummed out on that note, so let's harken back to the TV days of old. For you younger tomatoes, long ago, in a land before America Idol, there was a talent show (they weren't called reality shows then) called the Ted Mack Amateur Hour, and a lot of big names were discovered there.  Gladys Knight won at the age of 7, and we've posted a 16 year old Ann Margaret singing "Them There Eyes"  at 3T.TV.  She lost.  And no one remembers who won.
 
And way before Dancing with the Stars, Katherine and Arthur Murray had a TV show called The Arthur Murray Dance Party. We've got a vintage clip of Buddy Holly singing "Peggy Sue" on the show, and Katherine's intro, a hoot.
 
summer harvest v blockWe've  also posted another episode of the Lousie Log. In this episode Louise, together with her over-active inner voice, interviews potential nanny's. Very funny episode.
 
Sometimes the good ole days were just that. 

 
Cheers, 
 
 
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 ted mack
You know you're a tomato if... you remember The Ted Mack Amateur Show and when cigarettes were advertised on TV. Check out 3T.TV this week for a bit of nostalgia.
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Last Week's Poll about "Twitter"
This comment left at last week's poll about Twitter, sums up what 53% of tomatoes think. Maria wrote"Twitter what is twitter and who cares - pick up a phone & talk to me! Love to hear your voice!!
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May 28th Meet the Higgins Clark Gals Cursed, Carol Higgins Clark's latest book, and Just Take My Heart, Mary Higgins Clark's latest book are both on the New York Times best seller list.  Meet Mary and Carol at our May 28th event Cocktails and Conversation
 

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Liz Smith asks this week, "Is the New York Times sinking? And how will the closing of Broadway from Times Square to Herald Square effect the theater district?   Read on.  

1950s housewife

our gal about town, has the scoop on a new spa and a discount too.  And she now owns a slighty used pair of Jimmy Choo boots donated by Kim Cattrall for the Posh sale, a benefit for the Lighthouse for The Blind . Read on.
 
New Books 
rituals book 
Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway, who is a popular and regular contributor to The Three Tomatoes, has a new book, actually an e-book. Rituals for Love and Romance: Attract Your Soulmate with Self-Love and Ceremony. Read more.
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