Style Tips: Think Like Goldilocks

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Sometimes living in a fairy tale can be a good thing.

I’ll use the story of Goldilocks and The Three Bears as an example of how a woman should shop for clothes. Okay, so stick with me here on my philosophy. Remember how she tried everything three times, till she found what was “just right”?

How about you use the same thought process when trying on clothes?

Looking for a pair of jeans or some other pieces of clothing? How about trying on 3 different sizes and/or styles.

Think Like Goldilocks and Get the Perfect Fit

If something fits a bit too tight…it isn’t just right.

If something fits a bit too big…it isn’t just right.

If something fits you just right…it is just right for you.

Stop buying clothes in the size you used to be or plan on being, or buying oversized clothes thinking you’ll look smaller. Too tight and too big only accomplishes making you look bigger than you are.

Nobody wants to look bigger.

We want to look just right.

So stop wasting your money on clothes that end up hanging in your closet unworn and unloved, and start thinking like Goldilocks, and only buy what’s just right.

If you’re looking for the tips and tricks to help you choose what’s just right for you, check out my on-line course Stress Free Style System, “How To Build A Wardrobe You’ll Love On The Budget You Have”.





  • Scarlett De Bease is a personal wardrobe stylist who shows women women how to stop stressing about dressing and feel more confident when they walk into a room. She guides her clients virtually and in-person to create their own unique signature style, feel fearless and confident to be seen and heard, and excited to put themselves out to the world in a way that is game-changing. From creating outfits with what you already own, to taking you shopping in person or virtually, Scarlett uses her creativity and compassion to help women of all shapes, sizes, and ages go from feeling insecure and frumpy to confident, successful, and stylish. She takes boring outfits and turns them into “oh hell yeah, look at me outfits” while making her clients feel great about themselves. As the founder of Scarlett Image Consulting and author of Stop Stressing About Dressing, her one-of-a-kind in-person and worldwide online workshops reveal how a more powerful presence leads to more opportunities and more profit. You can find out more about Scarlett at

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